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In the proper setting, they like toentertain sexual concerns, such as, “if population control is desirable,why is the Pope against the Pill?” They are curious about birth defects,twins, multiple births and ask the age-old questions about cross speciesfertilization.

Conversely, girls are expected to be nonsexual in childhood and adolescence.
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As A went off to get them, she muttered, “this havingyour period isn't as wonderful as I thought it was going to be.”As girls adjust to the rituals of menstruation and their periods becomemore uniform in nature and regular in occurrence, they become more positiveabout growing up and more knowing about sexual matters in general.


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Girls are taught to withhold and beginto use their sexuality as a negotiable commodity.
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They appreciate appropriate sex materials to be usedin private and occasional one-on-one talks with a parent to clear up anytroublesome sexual ideas or feelings.


The professional mental health worker sees a small fraction of adolescentsand may or may not address sexual issues.

Before theonset of post pubescent partner sex, the criteria of “repeatedly preferred”(to partner sex) is not assessable; and when masturbation is the only sanctionedor available sexual option, the use of inanimate objects to enhance theexperience is common.

Some parents who value their own sexuality and acknowledgethe adolescent need to be sexual, endorse sex at home for their teenagers.

Paraphilic imagery or the use of objectswould be considered normative in childhood masturbation sexual patternsbecause of children's limited sexual knowledge and options.

The culture simultaneouslystimulates and misinforms, encourages and prohibits, punishes and rewardsthe adolescent for sexual interest and behavior.

Such imageryor acts tend to be insistently and involuntarily repetitive and generallyinvolve either 1) preference for use of a non human object for sexual arousal,2) repetitive sexual activity with humans involving real or simulated sufferingor humiliation or 3) repetitive sexual activity with non consenting partners.

Boys, experiencing the sexual urgency of adolescence, attempt topersuade, manipulate and coerce girls into actual coitus.

Fantasies about panties as a part of sexualarousal and/or masturbation, the purchase of panties as a personal giftto the partner, requesting the partner to wear panties as a part of sexualforeplay, etc., may not be considered a fetish because it is not the consistentlypreferred, necessary or exclusive sexual pattern.

It may be global ratherthan genital and is often confusion to the girl who is poorly informedabout sexuality.

are characterized by arousal in response to sexual objects or situationsthat are not part of normative arousal activity patterns and that, in varyingdegrees, may interfere with the capacity for reciprocal affectionate sexualactivity.